In Love With My Bestfriend

by Kathy

I'm in love with my best friend

I’m in love with my best friend! No this is not a story about natural parenting, but it is a story that I’m hopeful will lead to natural pregnancy and then natural childbirth.

It all started at university. I met him there through other friends, but at that time we didn’t care about each other. We were dating different people. He didn’t like me at all because I was too proud of myself at those times. Then he and his girlfriend broke up.

I was having problems in my relationship too. He was then absent from university for 6 months due to an accident. During that time we started to chat on MSN and we came to know each other. That was when we became best friends.

I was having big problem with my boyfriend and he was always there to give me advice. Finally I broke up with my boyfriend. Meanwhile I became more and more close to my MSN friend and we ended up becoming best friends. Yes, this couldn’t have happened without modern technology, but at the same time, because we were separated, our relationship developed naturally, not in the hurried fashion of a more typical relationship.

We could chat for hours and hours on MSN. We talked about everything and we understand each other very much. At the end of our second year I started feeling attracted to him but I held beck because I didn’t want to spoil our relationship and lose my best friend. It turns out that he too felt the same way but didn’t tell anything. It took us more than two months before finally one day we were at movies with friends and he kissed during the movie.

Even after that we didn’t just jump into bed together or even into a steady relationship. We were afraid to go out together. We talked about it and we decided to take our time so as not to precipitate things and lose our friendship.

Still, after that first kiss, we could not live without each other as we were too much in love. Ultimatley we gave a romantic relationship a chance. I acknowledged that I’m in love with my best friend! It’s been 1 year now since we decided to be exclusive and I can say it’s the most wonderful time of my life!!:)

So that’s how I fell in love with my best friend. We are both advocates of natural parenting. That is one of the many things we have in common. We are talking about getting married now and I’m hoping that will lead to producing a baby naturally!

I’ll keep everyone posted! Meanwhile, I want to learn more about getting pregnant naturally and about natural childbirth.
I’ll keep everyone posted!